Some time ago, I was told that I had terminal cancer. This came as quite a blow and it took me some time to come to terms with it. I have spent many hours pondering over the issues involved and looking for somewhere to get help, with the mixed emotions.
I realised that there were only the usual counselling services, which have a part to play; however, I also realised that what was needed was a service provided by, and organised by, people who are living with terminal illness either as a patient or as a close relative caring for someone who suffers from terminal illness.
Luck was on my side when I saw the article on Salford Star about the founding of the Blue Lotus Death Café in Salford. I went to the first meeting and, although there were only a few people there, it was very productive and we established quite a few needs that could be met.
One issue was the fear that people have when talking to someone who is dying, and, how we can help others to understand a little more about the needs and feelings of other sufferers.The second meeting helped us to develop more of an understanding about other people's feelings and fears.
The lady who founded the group is called Mandi Weston and she can be contacted on 07923 845004. She will give you all the information. Our next meeting is on 7th October 3pm until 4:30pm at the Angel Café on Chapel Street, where we will be glad to see anyone interested.
Death is a reality of life and not the morbid subject that many people think...
For further details see the 7th October Facebook event page – click here
Or the Blue Lotus Death Cafe Facebook page – click here
* See also previous Salford Star article on the Salford Death Café - click here
Words by Reg Howard
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